How to Improve and strong our Relationship

 ''RELATIONSHIP IS MAINLY BASED ON TRUST AND UNDERSTANDING''

Relationships plays very important role in our life. If someone has a good relationship, So they realize that they are very happy and blessed. But somehow people don't have any relationships or else having bad relationships, then they feel very sad and lonely.

Feel shocking when people do suicide due to stress and depression in relationship in whichever environment we live, our relationship start getting developed with the people around us like with our friends and family, with the office colleague or with our special person every relationship have their own importance but due to busy schedule and some misunderstanding most of the relation don't last for long time and after some month we get to hear common sentences like "We have done breakup and we are no more together" it is very necessary to keep positive thinking in order to the relationship strong but many time people take this positive thinking in a wrong way.

Example- If the relationship is going well without any fight and misunderstanding from last 8 months then people start making expectation that in future also the relationship will remain like this only. In fact many time people start making future plan about that relation in their mind Like ‘’This boy/girl is very nice, He/she will always support me, Our tuning and thoughts match alot, We will definitely do a good business in future etc-etc’’. And if that expectation is not fulfilled then a good relation get ruined  just because of some unrealistic wish was not fulfilled.

HERE ARE SOME TIPS TO IMPROVE OUR RELATIONSHIPS --

1) KEEP EXPECTATION LOW - Every person have their own strength and weakness that's why we should expect from people according to their strength Moreover, expectation should be small and realistic we should not make such expectation that cannot be fulfilled or the list of expectation should not be so much long that it might create disturbance in the relationship when we only can't fulfill all our expectation then how can we expect from others that they will fulfill all our expectation so in order to keep relationship strong and forever, try to keep expectation low.

2) FOCUS ON SOLUTION, NOT ON PROBLEM - Whatever type of relationship it is whether it is with family, friend or special person it is normal to have problem and misunderstanding in relationship its not necessary that there will be no problems in future if it was not there during 1 year of relationship NO...!!! problem will arise and everyday it will come at that time instead of focusing on problem, try to find its solution if you are discussing only problems then it might happen that past problems and fights will also arise which will make the situation worst also avoid discussing problems on calls and messages its better to meet together and discuss that problem in order to find its solution.

3) TAKE OUT SOME TIME FOR OTHERS : We are so busy in our daily work and schedule that we are not able to take out some time for those people who are the important parts of our life yes...work is also important but one small message or call of yours or a surprise gift from you will make your relation more strong & bright Sometime a small and little things make a big difference So to conclude... if you want to make your relationship strong then stop expecting more and start focusing on present.

4) BETTER COMMUNICATION: Communication is an important part of relationships. You want to be free with your partner and be able to share your thoughts at every subjects. You also want, that you both are able to handle any situations that come your way. Becoming a friend with the person you are interested, can be a bonus. Because then you know them very well, and you can be comfortable around them.

5) GOOD UNDERSTANDING: It's important to have an understanding between both those are in same relationship'. Because understanding keep relationship healthy, Especially when times aren't in your favor, and you want to be free from the tension somehow. When you both understand any situation together at the same thing, it creates a bond between one another and your relation gets stronger. Then you're able to accept each other for who you are. Let him/her know how special they are for you, and how much they mean to you. Being there and make them understand is a great way to show that you care for.

If a person is constantly letting down their partner, and you feel that he/she not showing interest in relation, it's a sign that they are taking that person for granted. Do you see a future with your partner? Planning your future together is a joyful moment, in which the two of you will always share the bond that you have. Maintaining the relationship and faith on each other, even in hard situations, is a big deal. If both of you really care about each other, do not let him/her go.

'ENJOY EVERY MOMENT'. Always remember one thing People in relationship may not be perfect, But relationship should always be perfect.